Frankly, it’s all in your hands!
We often use a term without understanding its seriousness. We also fail to understand the repercussions it can have on life, ours and others. Consider phrases like hell and heaven. What do they even mean?
What are heaven and hell, and why do we use these words?
I used to quote these terms in many of my conversations. One fine day, I released the hidden philosophy behind it. What is it around these words? Why is there so much negative or positive energy around us that controls us, our mind, our body and our emotions? Why is that, we often end up using these words? Here’s a bit!
I analyzed the circumstances in which I use these words. I released that it’s not because of a bad situation, but because how I landed in that situation and how do I let this particular choice of mine affect me in the first place altogether. Then, I began to question myself about how I made these choices in the first place? Is it because of it being my only option? Or, is it because my then situation let me choose this? Or, because my family, friends and peers pushed me towards that choice?
I realized that my life’s choices, the reason for those choices and their repercussions made me define hell and heaven.
How to get out of hell and move towards heaven?
A person is known by the choices. We should learn to take responsibility for our situation. This is where we create hell or heaven. Sometimes, it’s hell or other time it may be heaven. But the only problem is that we do not try to find the solution to get out of that hell. If its heaven, no problem, but its hell, then its time or an alarm that we better do something to get out of it.
If we make individual choices in life, then we should also remember that we are the only person who can get ourselves out of it. We can change our hell. The only thing which is required in this process is the honesty and courage in our lives. We can completely get rid of the hell, we have entered in.
Remember, no one has forced us to stay in that hell. We have to make a decision. Every problem has solutions and not just “a” solution. There are numerous solutions, some are bad, and some are good. Every solution has its pros and cons. But if you select the right one, you will end up coming out of hell. The only question you have to ask yourself is, do you want to get out of it?
Often, we get stuck in hell, a big self-created hell, which we later understand that it was unnecessary. The solution can be… DQS
- First – Decide : Do you want to come out of this hell you created?
- Second – Question : How courageous are you to do that?
- Third – Solution : What are you going to do?
But before all of these, do ask yourself if you at all deserve this hell? If we get this answer, you have already walked the 25% of the battle that is going on due to hell created in your life.
Many people I have spoken with have confessed that they want to get out of the hell they are suffering, but we are not able to do it. I always tell them, aren’t you still to find the door because all you have been doing is to look at the window for an escape. For someone who has created this hell or some time it’s just you who have to unlock that door, you have shut tight up. It’s just a matter of time. People say all the time, Time heals everything. But it’s you who can treat everything. Time is the master, but it’s the master of showing you that your time is passing away and if you don’t take action on time, you will be left behind. It makes us realize that we are losing something and that something is ourselves.
With the passing time, we realize one thing for sure. It is the place we live in is the place we create. Be it hell or heaven, it can be at times difficult, but you have a fair amount of control over it. And setbacks in life aren’t failures, but lessons. We need to change our outlook, or it’s time that you accept yourself better fast so that the setback cycle doesn’t start over and over again.
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Happy musings!
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